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Getting embroiled in an argument going nowhere? Ask for help!

I had a friend who was a psychotherapist.

She told me the story of her encounter with a telephone operator in Israel.

“This operator was driving me crazy. And I was driving her crazy.

Both of us were speaking English. But you would think we were speaking two different languages.

I hung up in disgust.

And then a little voice spoke to me. "Asshole, you’re a therapist,

You’ve handled more difficult situations.

Act like the ‘grown up in the room' and call her back."

My friend called back the operator.

And in a helpless voice, asked her, “Can you help me?”

The operator’s voice came shrieking back.

“HELP YOU? HELP YOU?????????????

OF COURSE I CAN HELP YOU. WHY DIDN’T YOU ASK ME THAT IN THE FIRST PLACE!!!!!!!!!!”

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